Many people declare that they want to have a partner for life or to find their soulmate but don’t get much success in this and they don’t know why. There could be many reasons, some conscious and some unconscious. One obstacle on their way to achieving their goal could be identified with asking these questions and being honest about the answers.
Are they willing to do the work that needs to be done in order to have a partner? Are they willing to put in the energy that it requires? Are they ready for the one when they appear?
Being in a deep and meaningful relationship requires a different lifestyle than what you have when being single. It comes with different schedules, different priorities, and it means to have to consider another soul in your life.
Are you ready for that? Are you willing to give up some of your freedom? To share your closet, your time, your heart with someone else?
First, you have to be honest with yourself and focus on the work you have to do in order to get the results rather than the results themselves, and also consider life with the result you are seeking.