Your “one” can come in a different shape or form. You might not see it at first, but when you are open and give a chance to opportunities, you will be surprised to see that this is exactly the “one” that you were looking for.
The practical side of this concept is: try to be less rigid with your “list” of your ideal partner. Keep all the “musts” don’t give up on your values such as family, faith, integrity etc. Mismatching values can leave you unsatisfied. However, you have to get rid of the “should” and to allow for exceptions when the values are matched, For example, age range, distance, economical status etc. Accept the opportunities.
If you want to figure out your values, here is a way to help you identify them. Write out the most meaningful moments in your life, what were they, what made them meaningful for you, who were you with? Or, think of the moments you felt least satisfied, what made them unfulfilling to you? The themes that commonly emerge from those memories are tied strongly to your values.
Being flexible and open will increase your chances to meet the partner you are looking for.
Do your best and let universe handle the rest…